Raven, do the Tarot cards control us? Or do we control the cards?
This is the most popular question in my Tarot classes. Who’s in control?
An excellent question, and one with many layers.
Unless you are the lucky few who grew up with openly psychic mothers/grandmothers, etc…you were more than likely taught to fear the Tarot. Perhaps the fear came through dismissal or scorn. Poo-pooing any magic that wasn’t a white rabbit or found in a horror movie.
Maybe it wasn’t Tarot, per se. Maybe it was fear of the devil, death, the occult or someone of a different skin color. Taught what was different or strange had some type of power over you.
Why are we taught such things? Where is the curiosity?
Where is the trust and faith in our own being?
The Tarot is a tool — just like religious texts, music or a math book. Transformative to some, indifferent to others. I see the Tarot as a good friend who guides me. Sometimes I listen. Other times, not.
When I bring a situation to the cards, the Tarot reflects that emotion – which can be terrifying or exhilarating because I already know in my gut. I just may not have a clear answer. The Tarot points and says, “Look over here, Raven. Then over there. Consider this. You may want to re-think that.”
That voice, that reflection, is my intuition. I choose whether or not to trust it.
The cards never lie, unless we are lying to ourselves.
If it’s too heavy and I can’t get a clear reading, then I’ll consult trusted friends and advisors to help me tune in. You may be tremendously intuitive — but there is nothing wrong with asking for help. In fact, it’s very honorable.
In full disclosure mode, I don’t believe that I walk through this world alone. I have always felt tremendous strength even when desolate. I do believe that I am guided by unseen energies — whether it be my ancient Self or beings in other dimensions who assist. (Of course, let’s not forget the people on Earth who have been more than willing to help, when I’ve allowed.)
The Tarot is one of those helpers, as was the Bible when I was a Christian. They gave comfort and wisdom.
And like any tool, they can be used to aid or manipulate. Our choice.
Do I believe that the Tarot has control over me? No. It’s all in how willing I am to listen.
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