I just read great advice from Seth and he inspired me to write my own business tips.

Here are 10 that will help you thrive in your business. I started Shivaya Wellness back in ’07 with a different biz name and direction. I’ve come a long way but still follow these simple steps to keep my balance and stay focused.

1. You can do exactly what you want to do. Yes, that sounds pie-in-the-sky, but it’s true. It just may come in different forms than you expect. It’s not like I grew up thinking that I’d channel my intuitive abilities into a business. However, I always saw myself as a writer and teacher. These are fulfilled every day through my work.

2. Listen well, but be ever more discerning. Much of the advice out there is crap. Or it doesn’t fit because they aren’t you. Listen, but find your own unique way. Most of all, avoid skeptics and bitter folk who hate that you are taking a risk. You don’t have to convince anyone of the value of your life, or your work.

3. Patience rewards. It took me 4 years before making the leap to full-time (without a trust fund or a partner paying the bills) — and then a year or two of juggling very slim, nerve-wracking $$ months. If anything, being an entrepreneur requires a ton of faith and ten tons of patience. It has only been in the last year that I’ve seen the Wheel of Fortune turn. Once you’ve worked with enough people, they will help continue your business through repeat sessions and referrals. Remember: infinite patience produces immediate results (A Course in Miracles). 

4. Goals and business plans are overrated. When someone asks my goals, my reply is: to have none. Maybe it’s age, wisdom or pure laziness, but I don’t chase after a list of goals in my business. What I desire is to be – and have enough money that provides the ease in which to do so. However, I regularly practice #8.

5. Be the eternal student. I constantly learn from my clients (many of whom are self-made), blogs, articles, books and being around other healers. I ask questions. I watch videos. I have sessions with intuitives to learn their techniques. I spend hours contemplating, “How can I express this idea to help my readers?” or “How can I adjust my business to stay interested?” I have degrees in English, but am not a perfect writer. I write, constantly edit and keep reading. I learn the ins & outs of WordPress and social media. I keep up. Being the eternal student keeps you fresh and interested in life — and injects your business with a constant source of enthusiasm.

6. Learn how to budget and be obsessively organized. This is the biggest fail I see with other healers: carelessness with and towards money. I keep a spreadsheet of all business transactions, as well as a personal budget. I have a line of credit I use sparingly. I make sure my bills are paid on time and over the minimum whenever possible. How you treat money in your personal life will most certainly bleed into your business, so hire an accountant/office manager if you have difficulty with this — and learn how to be obsessively organized. Be clear about rates/services, send invoices on time and follow through.

7. Look, act and be professional. Reputation is everything. Be sincere in your presentation and in your words. I quickly learned the value in being direct about rates, showing up early for a session and doing the absolute best I can. There is no room for laziness or taking clients for granted. They are providing you with two very rare resources: their time and money.

8. Get clear on your ideal client, ideal day and ideal rate. I only work with whom I care to work. This took me years to realize: I don’t have to work with everyone. There are plenty of healers for the overflow. Once I became clear on my ideal client and ideal day, my business transformed. I was also refreshingly clear and energized, rather than dragging around a perpetual exhaustion. When you start your business, you may have to take less-than-ideal gigs. But that doesn’t mean you need to sacrifice your ideals on the altar of drudgery. Get clear — and raise your rates accordingly.

9. As you grow and change, so will your business. Be flexible. I started out as a “Tarot reader” but that only encompasses a part of my business. I am a writer, consultant and mentor. If I had to be pinned down by a name, I’d say: healer. There are times that one tool of my skill set becomes more dominant than another. That’s okay. As long as I enjoy my work, the particular names don’t matter. I also know that my business may completely change in the future, and am open to the next step. Boredom is the biggest killer of a biz. Be flexible and practice #5.

10. Be proud of what you do. Whether you are a doctor, mechanic or witch, be proud of your work. It’s still kind of odd that I actually use Tarot cards in my business — but I love my work. There’s nothing better in life than giving someone hope.

22. March 2012 · 8 comments · Categories: blog · Tags: , , , , ,

I’m highly selective about reading Tarot cards at private events — and am sure my $$ rate is worth my precious energy. Private events can be a great gig — happy people, easy cash — or a potential nightmare.

So, here are my tips from 10 years of screw-ups and successes with private Tarot parties.

1. WHERE, WHEN, WHY?

Figure out what type of gig you want. This is a crucial 1st step. Restaurants? Hotel events? Private house parties? Bars? Every one holds a different type of vibe — so make sure it fits exactly with what you desire. I don’t do readings past 9pm and will chill the entire day before a party. My power time to read is 10-6pm, so I’m sure to be well rested for any night gig. I decline any type of bar event and prefer quiet, private house parties with 10 people max.

2. JUST SAY NO TO DESPERATE CASH

Never, never, never take a gig just for cash. Never. Always be highly alert as to your client, environment in which you’ll read, length of time and type of people. It can truly be a crash-and-burn experience if you grab a gig out of desperation.

3. LIST YOUR EVENT RATE

Be VERY clear about your rate. There’s nothing more irritating when I visit a website and no rate can be found. I find the mystery completely unprofessional and will certainly not take the extra step to email and wait for your response. Stating your rate also saves you from future miscommunication — such as when a client says, “I thought you said x amount per hour?” and hands you a check that’s $200 less than what you expect to see at the end of a long night.

Not listing your rate makes me think that you have something to hide, are ashamed of what you charge, or have such an exorbitant fee that you fear stating it. LIST YOUR RATE. Here’s how I list my services.

4. WHAT TO DISCUSS WITH THE EVENT COORDINATOR

Be very clear about your role and type of session you’ll do at the event. Either write it all up in a contract or make sure you have a lengthy conversation with the event coordinator. Ask if they have any questions or concerns.

State in no uncertain terms: 

  • length of session — and stick to it or you’ll end up with unpaid time!
  • total number of clients per hour/party (include a 5 minute break per hour)
  • what type of room set-up and view the event space, if possible
  • your policy for sessions with tipsy/drunk clients
  • clarifying if any minors will be at this party
  • your rate and how you like to be paid (cash/check/online) and if a deposit is required
  • cancellation/refund policy

5. WHAT TO BRING WITH YOUR CARDS

  • a timer
  • a bottle of water
  • your accoutrements (rocks, crystals, candle if allowed)
  • biz cards

6. KEEP IT SIMPLE

  • Relax. Have fun but remember that it’s a work gig. Be professional. Leave when you’re done.
  • Wash your hands during and after the party. Sage your cards when you get home.

7. FINAL TIPS

  • Be direct.
  • Be clear.
  • Be professional.

All 3 will do you a world of good when it comes to booking parties. Reputation is everything in this biz. Always be aware that reputation both precedes and follows you. You’ll have at least 10+ people who see who you are, what you do and will tell 10+ friends about their reading.

Offer the host a free reading at the end of the night. It’s a great way to say thank you for the gig.

29. January 2012 · 2 comments · Categories: blog · Tags: , , , ,

{It always bears asking: what is true wealth? When times are tough financially — which is often in my life — I have to remind myself of this question. “Richness” is a vignette from The Reluctant Tarot Reader. Enjoy.}

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One friend has $700 worth of repairs on her car.

Another wonders how she’ll pay the rent to keep her cafe open.

Another has stopped eating meat because she can’t afford to buy it.

And another is blazing forward with her intuitive biz, better than ever.

I’m all for Abraham and the ‘law of attraction’. I love positive thinking — but not at the expense of acknowledging struggle.

Struggle is different from wallow. Struggle is empathy because yeah, I’ve been there. Time and time again.

Saturn is here roaming around my chart in this particular lifetime to teach me about money. Which means I’ve known wealth–and long for it again.

I’ve had to re-think and re-tune my ideas of richness, though. I wouldn’t be living in VT if I wanted to be successful on a strictly green basis. This is the state of healing, good vibes and gorgeous vistas. Not necessarily the land of fat cats & fatter wallets. Of course, it gives me pause when I hear about friends and the ensuing frustration when I can’t write a check to help them out. Wouldn’t that be great?

I want life to be easy. For them. For me. I’ve known plenty of rich people who struggle in their souls–but that doesn’t make me feel any better.

Hey, I’m not going to be one of those healers who’s all la-la about abundance. Not having money sucks.

I wonder why we’ve chosen this particular piece of paper to make the world go round?

I wonder what we can do to ease the stress of expense?

Sure, there are ways of being frugal. Or ways of spending like you don’t care. Or staying somewhere in the middle. But it’s the sense of ‘not enough’ that haunts. Where does that come from?

My needs are always met. Always. And when it comes to money, my bills are paid. It may be at the very last minute that cash arrives, but it comes. I have to keep reminding myself, though. It’s like I have this perpetual amnesia when it comes to fulfillment — or maybe I have a slight addiction to worry.

Either way, I keep being shaped by living in a world that requires money. It’s pretty odd. This year, I’ve made it my goal to be more like water, less like rock. To willingly receive support — whether financial or other — and make this ride smoother. 2011 is the year of smoothness. That includes coinage.

The law of attraction can’t work until I have compassion for where I am, right now. And that is a life well-lived with a pretty low bank account at the moment (“low” being a relative word, of course.) That contrast is either a thorn in my side or the magical place where everything transforms (5 of Pentacles, anyone?)

Because I do love the essence of money. I do love the ease it brings. I love tipping well. I especially love a Saab, Audi or BMW convertible. I love beauty–and money gives me access to certain types of beauty. I love paying my bills and having plenty left over.

And I love how Saturn teaches me to stay in place long enough for the lesson. If I resist, he just hangs around even longer until I finally get it. It’s about always having what I need but acknowledging the struggle. Enhancing the picture. You can still have enough while enhancing the picture. It doesn’t take away from the fundamental beauty and form. Every painter knows that.

Every painter also knows when it’s finished — or time to move onto another work (I’m the type that usually barrels through, tearing out my hair until it’s done. Big surprise.) The ‘law of attraction’ may not resonate for you. So what? Find what works. Find what brings ease. Trade in your car. Refinance. Be grateful for every little thing. This works wonders for an anxious mind.

Know that this too, shall pass. It always does.

Or just look up at the beautiful sky, take a breath and say, “Gimme the money, honey!”