Watching the response of the evangelical community to Jennifer Knapp (a popular Christian artist who recently came out) set off some triggers from my own experience with the church 20 years ago. I can’t believe that we’re still having this conversation–is it a choice? are gays going to hell? what happens to the institute of marriage if gays marry? –which helps me understand why kids use the term “genderqueer”. Say “gay” and many conservative Christians go into a righteous tizzy. Why it causes such grief and anger astounds me. Yet as I was once a born-again Christian, I understand the need to build walls and drill up the “I’m right, you’re wrong” catch-all verses from the infallible and literal word of God. As a Christian, I was God’s warrior– More »

22. February 2010 · 1 comment · Categories: blog · Tags: , ,

A close friend of mine commented that I was pretty vulnerable in my previous post about my Mom. So be it. It’s good to be open–and it’s never come easy for me. It’s a mix of reasons. I have Scorpio rising–and Scorpios are all about space and secrets. I’m not one to show grief in public. I do much better with warmth and pure rage.

But going through the process of losing my Mom has made me even more reflective. It’s exactly that: a process. More »