There are a few newbie Tarot clients who sit at my table and think that a) I’m a mind reader and should know everything about their life and b) they can sit back and I’ll tell them they want / don’t want to know. I don’t blame them: we’ve been taught a caricature of a psychic/reader to be either a fraud or All-Knowing, so they are startled when I ask them what topics they’d like to discuss, especially if it is a short read. I am a fast and efficient reader but when a client directs the session, it makes it easier to gain insight and answer more questions in a short timeframe, especially if we dive into a past life, etc.
Yes, it’s true. I make my clients work. Blame it on the English teacher in me.
The reason I ask my client to focus is that it directs their energy, sharpens their intuition and most of all, allows them to keep their power. If they say, I want to look at work or my relationship, that’s what we’ll do. I won’t root around in areas that are off-limits, nor declare anything that isn’t relevant to the session.
The client is the driver. I’m the passenger with the GPS.
Every psychic/Tarot reader/sensitive works in different ways. Some don’t allow questions. Some want you to talk. Some want minimal information and then they ask further questions as the read continues. You as the client need to find the reader who works with your temperament. Yet no matter their style, any reader with integrity will always have your best interest at heart and respect your free will/power. If they don’t, run!