I just read great advice from Seth and he inspired me to write my own business tips.

Here are 10 that will help you thrive in your business. I started Shivaya Wellness back in ’07 with a different biz name and direction. I’ve come a long way but still follow these simple steps to keep my balance and stay focused.

1. You can do exactly what you want to do. Yes, that sounds pie-in-the-sky, but it’s true. It just may come in different forms than you expect. It’s not like I grew up thinking that I’d channel my intuitive abilities into a business. However, I always saw myself as a writer and teacher. These are fulfilled every day through my work.

2. Listen well, but be ever more discerning. Much of the advice out there is crap. Or it doesn’t fit because they aren’t you. Listen, but find your own unique way. Most of all, avoid skeptics and bitter folk who hate that you are taking a risk. You don’t have to convince anyone of the value of your life, or your work.

3. Patience rewards. It took me 4 years before making the leap to full-time (without a trust fund or a partner paying the bills) — and then a year or two of juggling very slim, nerve-wracking $$ months. If anything, being an entrepreneur requires a ton of faith and ten tons of patience. It has only been in the last year that I’ve seen the Wheel of Fortune turn. Once you’ve worked with enough people, they will help continue your business through repeat sessions and referrals. Remember: infinite patience produces immediate results (A Course in Miracles). 

4. Goals and business plans are overrated. When someone asks my goals, my reply is: to have none. Maybe it’s age, wisdom or pure laziness, but I don’t chase after a list of goals in my business. What I desire is to be – and have enough money that provides the ease in which to do so. However, I regularly practice #8.

5. Be the eternal student. I constantly learn from my clients (many of whom are self-made), blogs, articles, books and being around other healers. I ask questions. I watch videos. I have sessions with intuitives to learn their techniques. I spend hours contemplating, “How can I express this idea to help my readers?” or “How can I adjust my business to stay interested?” I have degrees in English, but am not a perfect writer. I write, constantly edit and keep reading. I learn the ins & outs of WordPress and social media. I keep up. Being the eternal student keeps you fresh and interested in life — and injects your business with a constant source of enthusiasm.

6. Learn how to budget and be obsessively organized. This is the biggest fail I see with other healers: carelessness with and towards money. I keep a spreadsheet of all business transactions, as well as a personal budget. I have a line of credit I use sparingly. I make sure my bills are paid on time and over the minimum whenever possible. How you treat money in your personal life will most certainly bleed into your business, so hire an accountant/office manager if you have difficulty with this — and learn how to be obsessively organized. Be clear about rates/services, send invoices on time and follow through.

7. Look, act and be professional. Reputation is everything. Be sincere in your presentation and in your words. I quickly learned the value in being direct about rates, showing up early for a session and doing the absolute best I can. There is no room for laziness or taking clients for granted. They are providing you with two very rare resources: their time and money.

8. Get clear on your ideal client, ideal day and ideal rate. I only work with whom I care to work. This took me years to realize: I don’t have to work with everyone. There are plenty of healers for the overflow. Once I became clear on my ideal client and ideal day, my business transformed. I was also refreshingly clear and energized, rather than dragging around a perpetual exhaustion. When you start your business, you may have to take less-than-ideal gigs. But that doesn’t mean you need to sacrifice your ideals on the altar of drudgery. Get clear — and raise your rates accordingly.

9. As you grow and change, so will your business. Be flexible. I started out as a “Tarot reader” but that only encompasses a part of my business. I am a writer, consultant and mentor. If I had to be pinned down by a name, I’d say: healer. There are times that one tool of my skill set becomes more dominant than another. That’s okay. As long as I enjoy my work, the particular names don’t matter. I also know that my business may completely change in the future, and am open to the next step. Boredom is the biggest killer of a biz. Be flexible and practice #5.

10. Be proud of what you do. Whether you are a doctor, mechanic or witch, be proud of your work. It’s still kind of odd that I actually use Tarot cards in my business — but I love my work. There’s nothing better in life than giving someone hope.

07. May 2012 · 4 comments · Categories: blog

 The more I do this work, the more I realize that presence, not words, is the key that helps others heal.

I’ve been doing Tarot sessions close to a decade now and have read for thousands of clients from all walks of life. But there are times I wonder whether I’ve said anything valuable that will help them.

Said being the operative word.

My clients ask direct questions such as, “Will my house sell?” “How’s my child?” “Will I leave my job?” I encourage this directness by asking them to focus on what they want (this is incredibly difficult for some).

But when they ask, I don’t really give a direct answer.

Why? It’s not my place to do so, even though I often want to.

It’s up to my client to make the wisest choice. I offer possible outcomes, if shown in the cards. Sometimes the Tarot says: be still. Stop. Consider. There’s a reason why things don’t seem to be moving right now.

Yet there is a need in me – call it nurturing, call it anxiety – that wants to fill that uncomfortable space for my client. I want to make it all better. I want them to leave with hope, not despair. And I’ve caught myself casting words into the void for such reasons. They have to get their money’s worth, right? They’re not paying for silence.

Actually, silence is as valuable as words spoken with loving intent.

As I’ve gone through a loss recently, I’ve realized that what I need from those who love me is silent understanding as much as an ear. It’s not like we haven’t been here before. We all know loss, and we all know how deeply personal and lonely it can be. It is the presence of my friends that heals me, as much as their words.

I’m allowing more thoughtful pauses in my sessions now – offering silence a space to encourage healing. Within that silence, I’ve had clients say incredibly illuminating words as they contemplate the spread. As irony would have it, the sessions closely align with what’s happening in my own life. It’s like I’m in constant therapy!

So, give yourself a break if you think that you either didn’t say the “right” thing in a session, said too much or not enough. It is your presence – your empathy, your understanding and pure humanness – that helps another heal.

…when you are convinced that all the exits are blocked, either you take to believing in miracles or you stand still like the hummingbird. The miracle is that the honey is always there, right under your nose, only you were too busy searching elsewhere to realize it. The worst is not death but being blind, blind to the fact that everything about life is in the nature of the miraculous.”
― Henry Miller